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PostSubject: Grudges   Wed Nov 09, 2011 1:41 pm

We all get tired of carrying heavy purses, shopping bags or luggage. Even the smallest bag becomes cumbersome after a while. For a moment, think about the unseen bag you might happen to carry around ALL THE TIME....everywhere you go! I am talking about the emotional baggage that we carry around each day, specifically, that sack of GRUDGES, that some of us might happen to possess. We have all been hurt by others. If we aren't careful, those hurts build up into resentments and those resemtments develop into a grudge.

Once a grudge enters our mind, it happens to grow and grow and grow. What started out as a small wrong, either real or imagined, quickly can develop into a massive ball of envy, malice, jealousy, bitterness, gossip, slander, hatred, cruelty and self-pity. (Even those words sound heavy) All of these words of ugliness build up and turn us into a vindictive, cold and vengeful person. When this happens, we become our own worst enemy.

I was my own worst enemy for a very long time. I looked for reasons to dislike certain people. I took offense at the smallest slight. I remember telling people that I would 'go to my grave remembering what so-and-so did to me.' I convinced myself to dislike others. I was actually proud of the way I simply dismissed people without a second thought. Looking back, I am so ashamed of my actions. I see where I was so very wrong. I blocked my chances of fellowship with God. I hindered my relationship with Jesus Christ. I lost out on so many blessings, such as peace, joy and love......I was horrible!

It wasn't until I finally released my resentments that I realized how much I had been hurting myself. I learned to free my grudges by turning them over to the Lord. His forgiveness, His grace, His mercy and His love allowed me to let go of both real and imagined hurts, wrongs and grudges. By letting go and giving these things to God, I allowed myself to grow and to experience the joy of walking in the will of God. I no longer carry around that enormous sack of resentments and grudges....and for that, I am thankful on this day.

Leviticus 19:18 You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself
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PostSubject: Re: Grudges   Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:31 pm

Unforgiveness is a very serious problem for many people. You're right it can snowball into much bigger things:

What started out as a small wrong, either real or imagined, quickly can
develop into a massive ball of envy, malice, jealousy, bitterness,
gossip, slander, hatred, cruelty and self-pity.

Forgiveness, on the other hand, brings healing and joy and releases us from bondage. Sometimes, things are done to us that seem unforgivable, wherein it is necessary to ask our Lord to help us to forgive. It isn't impossible to forgive every kind of wrong with the Lord's help.

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PostSubject: Re: Grudges   Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:55 pm

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PostSubject: Re: Grudges   Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:57 pm

Amen, sister. Truer words cannot be found. You hit it right on the head.

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